Day 19! YOU ARE NOT BORING!

Be glad your life isn't boring. If nothing good or bad ever happened to you, likely you'd start to get pretty bored with your life. Take everything that is coming to you as a challenge and a way to keep yourself busy and interested in your life.

Well.  My life is so not boring!! This IS a positive!  I stay so busy between this career of mine, exercise, helping people and my kids!  I'm still blessed to be active in the tattoo community tho I'm not tattooing, my modeling has picked back up and I've become the new face of a tattoo shop in Tampa as well as picking up a modeling page for www.Inkfreakz.com.  I will be recruiting and managing the page. How exciting! I've even been dabbling back in my photography for the last month. (no wonder i go to bed at about 8 every night)

Write down in your attitude journal how you are NOT boring!  You are a fun person and fun to be around!





Love,
Asia

Day 18 Surround yourself with positive thinking people!!

Associate yourself with those who think positively. Positivity is contagious, so find friends and family members who look on the bright side to surround yourself with.

Don't let those Negative Nancy's get to you... RUN THE OTHER WAY!  If you ever see me drop out of sight for a day its usually because I'm trying to get away from one.  Being alone with your own positive thoughts is sometimes a GOOD thing.
Reconnect with positive friends and go to good positive places.  Dark gloomy places get me down!  I need sun and light!!
Smile!
 Attitudes are contagious.  Are yours worth catching?  ~Dennis and Wendy Mannering

Love,
Asia

Day 17 Listing reasons you will get what you want!

List the reasons you will get what you want. If you are having trouble believing that you'll get that big promotion or that your book will get published try sitting down and coming up with a list of reasons that you will get what you want rather than focusing on the reasons you might not.

When you want to be successful with something you cannot just come up with an idea and let it die out.  I've said it a hundred times and I'll say it again.  In order to be successful you will not spontaneously combust, you must set yourself on fire. We all want to be a success no matter what we are doing we just need to clearly see what we are doing and keep that in mind.  When that goes out of the window, so will the love and passion for what you intend.
Get out your attitude Journal and write down these reasons today!!

I am making a list of 5 reasons I will get what I want!!!

1. God has given me an opportunity.  He knocked and I answered.
2. I LOVE TO COOK! This is what I choose to do with my life. To give people joy with my food.
3.People deserve more than fast food.  I take pride in the ability I have to make healthy good foods fresh and from scratch.
4.Weddings and Birthdays will ALWAYS happen! I'm very lucky to be able to help provide you with amazing food to help your guests be happy and make your event memorable!
5. I DESERVE SUCCESS. I WORK HARD AND I DESERVE THIS!

 If you can dream it, then you can achieve it. You will get all you want in life if you help enough other people get what they want.
Zig Ziglar

Love,
Asia

Day 16! Practice Self -Hypnosis!

Day 16: Practice self-hypnosis. Self-Hypnosis brings about a highly conscious state of mind that is willing to follow instructions. This means you'll be more open to positive suggestions that will allow you to be happier and hopefully healthier in your life.

Want to know how to do this? Check out this page with me. I'll be trying this today myself!

http://www.wikihow.com/Perform-Self-Hypnosis

We deserve a clear mind and we know we are worth more than we tell ourselves! Yesterday I wanted to give up and just run away. I really had a very bad day. It was just mentally exhausting. I did not practice a positive either.

This morning I woke up, had a good clean healthy breakfast, I'm writing in my attitude journal and I'm kicking today in the ass! I DO NOT want to feel like I did yesterday and will not let it have that much control over me again! Again, being GOD sufficient instead of agnostic is sometimes tough. BEING AGNOSTIC DOES NOT WORK!!!!

One more topic...I have promised you 100 days of positive thinking...commoooooooooooon I'm Asia...I didn't promise them all in a row! I'm really going to try to do better with getting caught back up tho. Thank you for standing by me on this journey! Love you!!

Love,

Asia

Day 15!!

For day 15, yes I know I'm off, but I'm just going to jump back in where I left off. I'm really finding I don't have some days to even get on the computer which I actually find healthy sometimes. I am however finding on days I don't use my control journal I feel down or sad sometimes. Even if I cant post right away...please take the liberty of making yourself a subject for the day!!!

• Think of ways to turn visualization into action. The next natural step of this is to think of just how you're going to get to where you see yourself. Just picturing it isn't going to make it happen, so create a plan to take it one step at a time until you've made it.

Thinking of a way to get a dream to come real? I can so see myself in a bakery...I WANT to see myself in a bakery. I am simply pinching every penny I can until I'm able to get on my feet and do this. I will do an extreme amount of research and planning before I just into it. When I am able I sure don't want it to sink! The only thing is you HAVE to get out and do it! Did those shoes walk to your feet and lace themselves? I didn't think so.

I have always said, In order to succeed... You will not spontaneously combust, you must set yourself on fire! This is truly the case in most situations.

Get out your attitude journal and write down what steps you can take to get there you are going!!!

Love,

Asia

Days 13 and 14!

13. Come up with ideas of how to turn negative thoughts into positive ones. If you find yourself thinking you should have done this or that differently, try changing your thoughts around. Instead give yourself credit for what you did do, remember that you are not perfect or that you can do better next time.
14. Work on visualization. Picturing what you want to accomplish or the person you'd like to be can be a great motivator to getting you there and helping you feel more positive about the distance you have to go yet.

I don't know about you, but I see myself in a beautiful home with my kids and a bakery called Ink & Icing! Its never too late to set yourself new goals!!!

Love,

Asia

Days 11 and 12!!!!

We are going to bundle days 11 and 12 into one since I didn't get to the internet yesterday.
11. Remember things could be worse. No matter how bad things get remember that they could be worse and be grateful for all the good things that are in your life, even when it seems there's more bad than good.
As bad as I feel like I have it sometimes, I have to look at the fact I have it pretty good. I have a home. My dear friend Whitney just lost her home in a horrible fire last week. I HAVE a home. It makes me feel foolish to say oh my house is too small, or I don't like the decorating in here. Whitney lost her home. Whitney also however took a positive turn and says, oh I rescued my children, I am a great mom I can do anything! She is such a strong chicky. Good for you Whit!!! You are an inspiration to me.

12. Think of it as an opportunity. Sometimes even the seemingly negative things in our lives present us with opportunities we wouldn't have been strong enough to pursue otherwise. Maybe losing your job is just the chance you need to start your own business or go back to school.

All I'm gonna say on this one is (and if you know me you'll know what I'm talking about) Being fired from Brookshires on a horrible discrimination case against tattoos was such an awesome opportunity. Yes it hurt my pride and feelings very badly, but my drive to go out and getting to own a bakery...oh yes! I know what I must do!



Get out your Attitude Journal and get to writing!! Stay positive and have a good night!

A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

Winston Churchill

Love,

Asia